Nollywood actress Iyabo Ojo opened up about her relationship with music executive and show promoter Paul Okoye, widely known as Paulo, emphasizing their decision not to tie the knot.
Ojo boldly asserted that they find the institution of marriage “overrated” and, instead, opt to revel in the joy of their relationship.
Speaking on the latest episode of her TV show, Iyabo Ojo TV, where she hosted veteran singer Charly Boy as a guest, the actress shared insights into her unconventional approach to romantic commitment.
With two children to her name, Ojo confidently expressed contentment in her partnership with Paulo, underlining that the absence of a marriage certificate does not diminish the depth of their connection.
“I am enjoying my relationship. I am enjoying it. Luckily for me, he [Paulo Okoye] also doesn’t believe in marriage.
We feel like it is overrated,” Ojo asserted, challenging societal norms that often place undue importance on the institution of marriage.
Charly Boy, in agreement with Ojo’s perspective, added his voice to the conversation, stating, “I agree with you that marriage is overrated.”
He shared an intriguing suggestion from his son, envisioning a contractual approach to relationships.
“My son called me the other day and said, ‘Dad, why can’t people have a contract and say we will just do five years in marriage, and if we are lucky and happy, we renew the contract?’”
The veteran singer’s unconventional proposal reflects the changing dynamics of contemporary relationships, acknowledging the complexities that have evolved over time.
Charly Boy delved into the shifting landscape of marriage, highlighting the contrast between present-day unions and those of previous generations.
He noted the rise of individualism, signaling a departure from the more collective mindset prevalent in the past.
Charly Boy pointed out, “Marriage is a little bit muddled up now. And people are a little bit more individualistic than they used to be before.
Nobody wants to serve anybody. Everybody wants to get their own. So, that’s where the problem starts.”
The conversation between Iyabo Ojo and Charly Boy encapsulates the evolving perspectives on relationships and marriage in contemporary society.
As individuals increasingly challenge traditional norms, their experiences contribute to the ongoing dialogue surrounding the dynamics of commitment, love, and societal expectations.
The decision of Ojo and Paulo to forego marriage reflects a growing trend where couples prioritize the essence of their connection over societal conventions.
