Nigerian transgender personality Daniel Anthony Nsikan, widely recognized as Jay Boogie, has shared the profound struggles he faced, including contemplating death, in the aftermath of a cosmetic surgery gone wrong.
Speaking candidly in a recent interview with media personality Chude Jideonwo, Jay Boogie disclosed the physical and emotional torment he endured during the tumultuous period.
The headline-grabbing transgender figure began by detailing the severe complications that arose following the botched cosmetic surgery, painting a vivid picture of the harrowing journey he underwent.
Jay Boogie expressed that the deterioration of his health reached a point where daily dialysis became a necessity for the basic bodily function of passing urine.
“People that I thought were my friends came into the hospital and took pictures of me and sent to the bloggers. It was becoming so annoying that the bullying online was even too much. I was receiving death threats,” Jay Boogie shared, revealing the additional layer of torment he faced as his plight was exploited on social media.
The transgender personality further highlighted the betrayal he felt at the hands of those he considered friends, who not only invaded his privacy during a vulnerable moment but also propagated false narratives about his health to solicit public sympathy for financial gain.
“I wasn’t the one that sent out my pictures on social media. It was my friends. I’m a discreet person. I don’t like flaunting things. I love living a low-key life. Because nobody cares about you. You should care about yourself,” Jay Boogie expressed, shedding light on his preference for privacy in the face of public scrutiny.
Amidst the online bullying and threats, Jay Boogie retreated from the media, seeking refuge from the harsh judgment and insensitive comments.
He reflected on the disturbing messages he received, where individuals questioned his choices and even wished for his demise.
“So, I mean, with the dramas going online, people bullying me saying, ‘How man go go do nyansh.’ Can you even imagine the mentality? Do you even see me as a man? This is something I want for myself,” Jay Boogie shared, addressing the societal stigma surrounding his personal decisions.
The emotional toll of the failed cosmetic surgery took a significant toll on Jay Boogie’s mental and physical well-being.
He described the painful process of undergoing daily dialysis, grappling with swollen legs, and meticulously monitoring his water intake.
The constant cycle of medical interventions became overwhelming, pushing him to question the decisions that led to such a precarious situation.
“It was hurting that I sat down and said, ‘God abeg, I am just tired. I just want to go [die]. What am I even doing? Who send me to come do this nyansh sef?'” Jay Boogie candidly admitted, revealing the depths of despair he reached during this challenging chapter of his life.
Jay Boogie’s story serves as a poignant reminder of the complexities faced by individuals navigating the intricate intersection of personal identity, societal expectations, and the consequences of medical procedures.
His openness about the struggles endured post-surgery adds a layer of vulnerability to his public persona, inviting empathy and understanding in a world often quick to judge.
